Joining the Kink Community
Discovering the world of kink can be a fabulous and overwhelming experience. So where do you go? What do you do? This can be especially nerve-wracking if you are coming …
NEGOTIATION & S.M.A.S.H.T.
SAFE, SANE, AND CONSENSUAL – we hear this all the time, but what does it mean? I want to take this opportunity to discuss a portion of this, which is …
It’s Ok To Be a D-type!
It’s ok to be a D-type Defining “D-type”: general term I use to encompass those that identify as a Dominant, Master, Mistress, Goddess, Trainer, Top, Owner, Daddy/Mommy, etc. D-types …
Article about Club Awakening in MEL mag!
Jessica Ogilvie from MEL magazine attended Club Awakening and followed up with me in a phone interview. I have included the link to the article and pasted the full article below… …
It’s “OK” To Be An s-type
First, what do I mean by “s-type”? For those that don’t know I refer to anyone that identifies as a slave, submissive, bottom, pet, property, or babygirl/boy (etc) as an …
Fetlife Etiquette
Fetlife is meant to be the kink lifestyle version of Facebook. Many people assume it’s more like a dating site, however, that was not the original purpose which is …
Your Poly is Not My Poly and That’s OK!
So you see people identify as “poly” or “monogamous” (aka mono). Seems pretty clear cut. I wish it were that easy. When it comes to poly there are a gajillion …
The Outsider
Large green fields. A huge bonfire. Adults and children playing, talking, eating, laughing. I say a few pleasantries to a few of the moms I know then focus on the …
Greetings and welcome!
I’m Jenn. Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, BDSM 101 educator, Poly Support group leader, and active BDSM community lifestyle member. I have decided to start this blog for several reasons. …